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Have you ever heard of a random act of kindness or RAOK if you’re into text speak?
It’s a little something you do for someone else, a friend or family member, or even a complete stranger, to put a little bit of happiness in their day.
Sometimes it’s the little things that make a big difference right?
So I was thinking. If we wanted a family tradition for the Holiday Season that meant we did something every day, why not make it count? Instead of having a creepy elf wreak havoc in my house why not sprinkle a little Goodwill around our neighbourhood.
Some RAOK Ideas for Your Family
Here’s some ideas to inspire you. And of course if you have some ideas of your own I’d love for you to share them in the comments.
- Leave a thank you card for your postman
- Pick up litter at the park
- Bake chocolate brownies and take them to your local fire or ambulance station
- Offer your seat to someone on the bus
- Buy a copy of your favourite book and give it to a friend
- Send someone you love a box full of hearts
- Collect up unwanted clothes and toys and donate them to charity
- Hang a candy cane on all the front doors in your street
- Send a care package to a soldier
- Create a kindness corner in your home or school
- Take some pet food along to the local animal shelter
- Rake leaves or shovel snow for an elderly neighbour
- Make a gift for your teacher
- Bake cookies for mum or dad’s coworkers to enjoy
- Leave a large tip for your waiter or waitress
- Adopt a soldier
- Find a handful of books you don’t read anymore and leave them around your neighbourhood for others to enjoy
- Give a coupon to someone else in the store
- Pay the toll for the driver behind you
- Donate your pocket money to charity
- Find a charity car wash event and have the car washed
- Write a letter to an elderly relative or friend
- Pop a store gift card in an envelope and leave it in a basket at the store for someone to find
- Fulfil an Angel Tree request
- Kind bomb the library
- Paint a picture and take it to the local nursing home
- Create some thank you cards and hand them out during your day
- Leave some crayons and a colouring book in the waiting room at the doctor’s
- Leave a penny in the street for someone to find
- Make a love message board and leave messages for your family
- Donate food to your local food bank or soup kitchen
- Buy popcorn for the person in line behind you at the movies
- Compliment five people to make them feel good
- Give a friend a hug
- Send a Happy Day package to a cousin who lives far away
- Recycle something in your home into a gift
- If you spend time in hospital then write thank you cards for your doctors and nurses
Wonderful idea. I never did understand the elf and we don’t do it. We have an advent calendar as that is what I grew up with.
I do like the idea of a kind act every day–that should be how we always live, right? Sometimes though we need a reminder. Having a specific focus on random acts of kindness with the kindness kiddos (cute!) will make for a very nice holiday season.
OMG, I LOVE this post. I’m an Elf on the Shelf hater. There, I said it. I’m so grateful that you came up with an alternative. I’d much rather see my facebook full of kind deeds done by children that marshmallows in a toilet and flour on the counter because the “elf” left it there. I found you on Motivation Monday.
OMG, I LOVE this post. I’m an Elf on the Shelf hater. There, I said it. I’m so grateful that you came up with an alternative. I’d much rather see my facebook full of kind deeds done by children that marshmallows in a toilet and flour on the counter because the “elf” left it there. I found you on Motivation Monday.
This is an absolutely fantastic idea. Love it! Love it!
This is an absolutely fantastic idea. Love it! Love it!
It’s funny how you describe the elf on the shelf–I have several from my childhood that are antiques, so my kids have never been able to touch them nor do they perform throughout the season– they ARE creepy looking and they remain high on a shelf in the same spot all season long.– I think I’m the meanest mom ever every time I see all those elf on the shelf ideas 🙁
Your kindness idea is more my style 🙂
It’s funny how you describe the elf on the shelf–I have several from my childhood that are antiques, so my kids have never been able to touch them nor do they perform throughout the season– they ARE creepy looking and they remain high on a shelf in the same spot all season long.– I think I’m the meanest mom ever every time I see all those elf on the shelf ideas 🙁
Your kindness idea is more my style 🙂
I really like your list. It’s great to teach kids when they are young to help others.
I really like your list. It’s great to teach kids when they are young to help others.
As someone that works at a place that sells that stupid elf, I can just say that this is a wonderful idea. The EOTS creeps me out!
As someone that works at a place that sells that stupid elf, I can just say that this is a wonderful idea. The EOTS creeps me out!
LOL – I have fun with Elf on the Shelf though I don’t emphasize the naughtiness. Our Elf does stuff, but not to create problems.
I love encouraging kids to be kind to others.
LOL – I have fun with Elf on the Shelf though I don’t emphasize the naughtiness. Our Elf does stuff, but not to create problems.
I love encouraging kids to be kind to others.
Love this idea! Thanks so much for linking up at Mom’s Library this week. I’ll be featuring you at Meaningful Mama. I hope you’ll be joining us again this week.
Love this idea! Thanks so much for linking up at Mom’s Library this week. I’ll be featuring you at Meaningful Mama. I hope you’ll be joining us again this week.
I love this idea and am linking to this page of yours in one of my upcoming posts. I hope you see some new visitors coming your way!
I love this idea and am linking to this page of yours in one of my upcoming posts. I hope you see some new visitors coming your way!
Thank you for linking up to our #ElfEscapades linky, my first Elf has arrived, but he is very cute and cuddly! And I can touch him! Mummy has adapted the idea for me, and I love him! I love your idea too x
Thank you for linking up to our #ElfEscapades linky, my first Elf has arrived, but he is very cute and cuddly! And I can touch him! Mummy has adapted the idea for me, and I love him! I love your idea too x
Love your ideas – they are fab.
We have an elf staying but he brings treats, activities and just hides from the kids – and they can touch him
Love your ideas – they are fab.
We have an elf staying but he brings treats, activities and just hides from the kids – and they can touch him